Oral Cock Worship

There are accomplished cocksuckers highly skilled in the art of fellatio (giving a blow job) who choose not to passively let their mouths be fucked --- the Latin word for this is irrumatio --- viewing the activity with distaste and considering it a domination ordeal and punishment (giving meaning to the term “oral rape”) more properly belonging to the BDSM realm. But for me allowing a worthy cock to treat me this way is another valid, necessary, and important form of devoted oral cock worship. In my eyes, a truly expert and dedicated male oral sex practitioner needs to constantly seek out and actively suck hard dicks, gloriously revel in the white cum reward that characterizes climax, aggressively deep throat even the big ones, and without hesitation be ready to passively remain still so his face can be vigorously fucked. And for me, just as during the course of a non-hurried, satisfying oral sex experience a decent amount of time will be given to appreciative mouth-to-balls contact, so too will some wonderful moments be spent holding sill so that instead of only sucking and licking some rewarding face fucking can take place as well. For some it may be a psychological control issue. When actively sucking the man with the dick in his mouth is in charge and in control of what the other man is experiencing. When passively being skull fucked this is reversed --- the man thrusting in and out of the mouth is the one in charge instead. Some cocksuckers may not like giving up being in control. And some who haven’t completely conquered their gag reflex may have concerns that the other man will get carried away and thrust too deeply, beyond the point of what can be tolerated. So when this is done on a basis of consent between two men, an element of trust in definitely involved. The man allowing the repeated in and out motions of the cock in his mouth expects the other man to honor (without taking advantage of the situation) his limits in terms of how hard and deep the thrusting will be, as well as for how long it will be done.In “dark side” pictures it’s easier to tell when irrumatio is taking place. In other random pictures without knowing the context of the oral sex episode that’s taking place it can be harder to know if a man is sucking or instead possibly letting his mouth be fucked. Since thrusting in and out of a mouth is made easier by having something to grab on to for leverage, when a picture shows hands holding onto the head that has a cock in the mouth, there’s more of a chance that a face is indeed being fucked. Previously in this great blog (March 26 and April 2, 2011) there have been entries about a valuable oral sex position that many of us are well familiar with that hasn’t had a good, universally accepted name. Calling it“the reverse thrust position” was suggested, and I also found it being called“over the edge” in a wikipedia writeup (see my August 2, 2011 blog entry). In this position the lucky man with the mouth that’s going to have a hardon in it lays horizontally flat on his back (most likely on a bed or table) positioned by the end of the supporting surface so that his head hangs downward unsupported over the edge. The fortunate man whose dick is going to experience the good vibrations straddles the other man’s loosely hanging head and his cock can go to town as it fucks the mouth. While it has only limited use at best as a position for active fellatio, on the other hand it’s absolutely excellent for effective irrumatio. The position is extremely favorable for all-the-way, to-the-hilt, deep throat thrusting. It’s good to use when a cocksucker who isn’t there yet is working to eradicate his gag reflex so he can eventually deep throat big dicks with confidence and aplomb. Many fine things in this life turn out to basically be acquired tastes for most men --- things you aren’t born loving, but have to learn to appreciate with experience. For many men eating cum falls into this category. So, too, I believe, does participating with enthusiasm when being on the receiving end of irrumatio. If the idea initially repels you, I urge you to be open-minded and give it a chance. Try it out. If you’re patient you can learn to tolerate and appreciate it, and if you stick with it beyond that you’ll come to savor, crave, seek it out, look forward to it, and regularly practice it. I think it’s a worthwhile skill any master cocksucker should have in his bag of tricks for what he can do for, with, and to a cock. A cocksucker who won’t let a big one deep throat face fuck his mouth, in my book, doesn’t deserve to be considered a master of the art of oral cock worship. Peter Rodman pdrodman@gmail.com